The roller coaster I'm on...
On Friday, after my dr appointment, I was happy as a lark! I was told that I could stop taking the pill (finish off the pack) so that I could get a few good "normal" cycles in before dh and I ttc this fall. She even said that I would make an excellent VBAC candidate.
Saturday, dh just brought me back to the ground with reality, like a ton of bricks. As most of you know, dd was in the hospital with a kidney infection. Dh noted that we won't have anything saved up in our HSA (health savings account). He didn't want me to be upset with him, but it sounds like he wants to push ttc back.
I've been watching the claims online to see when they have been "completed", and it is pretty depressing to watch. We have almost met our family deductible out of pocket max. Yes- our HSA funds will be gone, and we will not have anything saved for baby.
Why does everything good that is going on have to be crushed with reality?
I was looking forward to ttc, and everything else associated with having a baby- we even moved all our totes in the house into one location, including the totes containing my maternity clothes, pump and nb-6mo clothing. Other totes contain miscl items belonging to dh and I- storage area is one thing we do not have with our house.