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I feel like taking my whole bottle of lexapro

Posted by on May. 21, 2011 at 3:29 PM
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 argggh i am so pissed. my mom showed up at my house witth my sister. We dont have a good relationship at all. She likes to twist stuff around and starts drama. Well my mother decided to snoop around my house. I didnt clean the girls room and i had a clear blue easy test in my trash. Then all the questions start and my head starts to spin. My sd exbf is staying with us and they just kept asking him question after question. I felt so bad for him but i couldnt say anything.Then she kept walking round the house looking in the closets and back in the bathrooms. Now i know she is on the phone telling people shit that isnt true. She makes me wanna take all my pills and drink a fifith of vodka.

by on May. 21, 2011 at 3:29 PM
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by Leah on May. 21, 2011 at 4:51 PM

 hugs! just take a deep breath and brush it off. she's just trying to get under your skin and please don't let her. you know the truth and if she doesn't want to listen to it then that's her problem. hang in there! I'm here if you need to talk

by Silver Member on May. 21, 2011 at 7:21 PM
Wow Hun, I'm so sorry your mom is like that to you. It must hurt to be judged and betrayed by the person whose supposed to love you unconditionally. But take it with a grain of salt. You know the truths about yourself and anyone who believes otherwise isn't one whose opinion should matter much. You can get through this. Don't look at it as short comings in yourself, but short comings in her as a mom. Use her faults to help make yourself a better mom and person. I know that's mean to say, sort of, but sometimes that's all you can do:)
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by on May. 22, 2011 at 12:03 AM

oh, no

she makes things harder; huh?

wish I could help.  All I can do is let you know I read and that I wish you peace of mind

by on May. 22, 2011 at 12:05 AM
Stand up for yourself and tell them to get out
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by on May. 22, 2011 at 12:08 AM

Sorry you're feeling bad. =(

I laid some ground rules with my family. They've been told I don't like anyone popping in. They need to call first and then not be offended if it's not a good day for them to come over. I'm glad my mom doesn't snoop but no one snoops because they know how angry I'd get. Boundaries people!! I hope you feel better soon. 

by on May. 22, 2011 at 12:12 AM

 keep her out of your house. she has no right to dig through your personal things even your trash inside your house. lock her out, change the locks if she has a key.. dont ever let her in. She sounds as psycho as my grandma on my dads side. she twists things around to make her out to be the victim, and all the women on my moms side gossip like old church ladies it drives me crazy! I never invite any of them over.

by Group Admin on May. 22, 2011 at 6:49 AM

dont take the pills but i cant say dont drink the vodka. you could have politely escorted her out but i know you were probably thinking that would be wrong to do to your  mother. if you have something for anxiety take that or when you know shes coming over take it. if you dont have anything maybe you should get something.btw, my mil does that so i just stay in my room on my computer when she comes.

by on May. 22, 2011 at 11:48 AM

My mom is a total beotch and makes me totally freak out like major panic attacks.


by on May. 22, 2011 at 11:51 AM

it sound when i was growing up my realaships with my parents. keep you're head and rember god love you and don't do i will listen and been and the same boat so i know what you been throught.

by on May. 22, 2011 at 11:42 PM

 Hang in will get better! *HUGS*

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