Hello I just had a miscarriage yesterday and honestly im only 19 and I have no clue how to deal with this.. Right now im doing this alone my Boyfriend is the best but he too was excited to be expecting and when he found out he took it harder.. He wont even talk to me and I guess its because hes a guy but all my friends are telling me to have hope i didnt loose it but I looked up sighns and symptoms and what I had are pretty much what I found. BUt I did find one comment that one lady Had all my symptoms and scare and etc.. but then she was still pregnant and her baby was healthy and etc.. Idk I just need somem help im a mess..
I would get to a doctor and find out. And tell the doctor you would benefit from talking with a mental health professional.
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I'm sorry for your loss. Maybe talking to someone will help. There are support groups for this. Keeping you in my prayers. Sending lot of hugs.
Quoting Jessi21411:Thank you and yea I already made a doctor appointment the day before and its scheduled tomarrow..
Plese continue to let us know how you are doing. I had a miscarriage when I was 20. It was a "suprise" pregnancy but I still felt horrible.
If you are feeling super sick go to the er. thats what i had to do. I was vomiting and dizzy along with everything else going on.
i delivered a stllborn baby and the doctors now say that i might have had ppd that was untreated and got worse and worse. i waited for 7 years before i went for help, please get treatment asap.
Go to your doctor. ASAP! I have had 2 miscarriages, one cleaned out on its own, very painful, the other I had surgery called a D&C. It is hard. I was also your age when they happened, I'm 21 now, and my BF at the time , now Husband, took it VERY hard. You need to be sure of what is happening. If you cant afford a visit, you can go to a teencenter, your hospital should have a seperate branch around town if not several, youll get a free pregnancy test and they will help get you medicaid. Medicaid will cover any medical bills starting when you apply. I am so sorry you are going through this, it is definitely hard. I have been pregnant 4 times and I am always scared to death because of the past. Feel free to PM me if you need someone to talk to, I live in Texas, and I would love to chat. <3




- Jessi21411
on Jan. 15, 2012 at 10:15 AM