my daughter is 13 months old. her biological dad is denying her, even though she looks just like him. right after she was born he kept telling me that he wasn't going to be like his real father and just abandon his kid. when she was 4 months old he cut off all contact with me. i went by his house (which is just down the street from my house) and he always had an excuse (too busy, had company, etc.) the times i called him and asked if he could come by to see her, he said he was out of town or he had family or company over, then a few minutes later i would see him walking down the street to a friends house but he wouldn't even acknowledge me. i waved, called his name and he acted like i wasn't even there. is it my fault that he doesn't want anything to do with me or our daughter? when she was 2 months old i tried killing myself because of the crap he was putting me through. i kept having the thoughts "well maybe i should've had an abortion" or "maybe i should put her up for adoption" but i don't want to lose her, she's the only reason i'm alive right now. now he's just an asshole, he wasn't like this when i was pregnant. did i do something for him to be this way?