Here are some questions from the book I am reading to find out.
1. Do you dislike competitive situations?
2. Are you often sick?
3. Are you very dependent on a partner?
4. Do you feel best when you are doing things for others?
5. do you cry easily?
6. Do you feel very uncomfortable when criticised?
7. Do arguments upset you a great deal?
8. Are you afraid to be in control for fear of hurting others?
9. When making even a legitimate request, do you feel guilty?
10. Is it hard for you to express anger?
11. Do you minimize your capacities?
12. In spite of what people tell you, do you feel you are not gifted or attractive?
13. Is it hard for you to spend money on yourself?
14. Do you apologize when you give orders?
15. Do you feel misunderstood most of the time?
16. Do you feel other peoples' needs are more important than your own?
If you answer "yes" to any eight or more of these questions, you tend to be a love-addicted (self-effacing) person.
This is from the book I am reading Book of hope. No need to replay if you dont want to.
i have some of these but my huge issue is Abandonment issues with others because my mother was never around and died before i got to know her...
This is the kind of person I am. I am always Putting others before myself. Sorry about your mom and how she treated you. My father is like that. We were only his kids when he wanted us to be. Now he is in prison and he is trying to "make up for the time he lost" with me.
Quoting christylove2715:
i have some of these but my huge issue is Abandonment issues with others because my mother was never around and died before i got to know her...
im always putting others before myself it seems.. even on here ill do whta ever i can for others
Me too. I always but my family before myself.
Quoting christylove2715:
im always putting others before myself it seems.. even on here ill do whta ever i can for others
Quoting bestmom72106:
Here are some questions from the book I am reading to find out.
1. Do you dislike competitive situations? yes
2. Are you often sick? no
3. Are you very dependent on a partner? yes
4. Do you feel best when you are doing things for others? yes
5. do you cry easily? yes
6. Do you feel very uncomfortable when criticised? yes
7. Do arguments upset you a great deal? yes
8. Are you afraid to be in control for fear of hurting others? yes
9. When making even a legitimate request, do you feel guilty? yes
10. Is it hard for you to express anger? yes
11. Do you minimize your capacities? yes
12. In spite of what people tell you, do you feel you are not gifted or attractive? yes
13. Is it hard for you to spend money on yourself? yes
14. Do you apologize when you give orders? no
15. Do you feel misunderstood most of the time? sometimes
16. Do you feel other peoples' needs are more important than your own? yes
I need to have harmony, can't deal with thunder in the air.
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for me as well. I rather buy dh or the kids stuff then for me. I always feel guilty when I buy me stuff. I like to give presents and do good stuff for other.
Quoting christylove2715:
i have
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but remember THESE do not make you any less of a person.. remember that
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- bestmom72106
on Feb. 13, 2012 at 10:52 AM