Here are some questions to find out.
1. Do you prefer to do most things alone?
2. Do you dislike struggle?
3. Do you avoid being intimately involved with others?
4. Do you spend a lot of thme fantasizing?
5. Do you avoid change?
6. Do you delay paying your debts?
7. Do you find you procrastinate a good deal?
8. Do you tend not to participate directly, but prefer to maintain a peripheral position?
9.Does making an effort anger or irritate you?
10. Do you feel that ambitious striving is not for you?
11. Are you opposed to planning and prefer things to happen "spontaneously"?
12. Do you feel you are not demanding and can feel content with very little?
13. Do you find that you are not likely to talk about yourself unless prodded?
14. Do you find that you sometimes tend to be indifferent about sex?
15. Do you react strongly against being influenced or pressured?
16. Do you sometimes feel that your life is "weary,stale,flat,and unprofitable?
If you answer "yes" to any eight or more of these questions, you tend to be an Uninvolved person.
This is from the book called Book of hope. No need to reply Just answer the question to yourself unless you want to reply.
Quoting bestmom72106:
Here are some questions to find out.
1. Do you prefer to do most things alone? yes
2. Do you dislike struggle? yes
3. Do you avoid being intimately involved with others? yes
4. Do you spend a lot of thme fantasizing? yes
5. Do you avoid change? try too if it seems to much for me
6. Do you delay paying your debts? no
7. Do you find you procrastinate a good deal? IDK
8. Do you tend not to participate directly, but prefer to maintain a peripheral position?idk
9.Does making an effort anger or irritate you? no
10. Do you feel that ambitious striving is not for you? no
11. Are you opposed to planning and prefer things to happen "spontaneously"? no
12. Do you feel you are not demanding and can feel content with very little? no
13. Do you find that you are not likely to talk about yourself unless prodded? no
14. Do you find that you sometimes tend to be indifferent about sex? yes
15. Do you react strongly against being influenced or pressured? yes
16. Do you sometimes feel that your life is "weary,stale,flat,and unprofitable?idk
If you answer "yes" to any eight or more of these questions, you tend to be an Uninvolved person.
This is from the book called Book of hope. No need to reply Just answer the question to yourself unless you want to reply.
I had to use Google translate for this one , but still didn't get some of the questions
Definitely #1 for work, #3 I just can't, #4 yes, #8, out of shyness, but once it's over I want to be in the centre, #12 sometimes, #13, yes, because people think I'm boring but give me any hint you're interested, you're SOL :-). #15, if they are pushing me to do things their way to fit in or because they are more important or something.I hate authoritarian "I am the man, so what I say goes" answers. But not if they are asking me and giving me good reasons, even if it's "that's what we want to do, will you join us, please?"
That one's tough. I can be that way when I'm depressed and if people seem to see me negatively, but I don't think it's the "real" me and it's definitely not in a job or situation where I'm near some people I know well.
Interesting. NEver heard of that as a category.
Not sure how to keep my kids busy this summer, some advice needed!PIOG
- bestmom72106
on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:05 AM