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I hate being depressed

Posted by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 12:35 AM
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I really hate being depressed! I have been depressed since 1999 when my Grandfather passed away on June 1999, and my Aunt passed away on July 1999 then my step cousin killed and died in 2002. 

and Now, I have a miscarriage for the first time ever today. I have a 5 years old son and lost my second child at 6 to 7 weeks. 


I used to take some depressed pills but it never work on me! 

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matreshka
by Ruby Member on Apr. 24, 2012 at 6:58 AM

(((Hugs)) I am sorry you miscarried.  I have been through it.  Please take care of yourself and rest, give yourself time to grieve. 

Therapy or support groups are other ways of helping depression as well.  The meds don't work for everyone.

lyrick24
by Ruby Member on Apr. 24, 2012 at 7:06 AM

 im so sorry you have gone through all of that. that is alot to handle. if the meds dont work for you i would suggest you seek therapy. try to find you a good therapist that fits you and go that route. good luck!

JansRainbow
by Silver Member on Apr. 24, 2012 at 8:45 AM

I am so sorry for your losses. There are all kinds of meds for depression. Have they tried more than one? Some people they don't work for. Try finding a therapist or grief support groups. You have been through a lot. Ask your primary care doctor for a referral to a therapist. I will keep you in my prayers. Take care. Sending hugs.

lucy164
by Silver Member on Apr. 24, 2012 at 10:53 AM

i hate depression too.  i think it is the worst illness you can get.  i am so sorry for all your losses.  try different antidepressants.  i did and he found one that works great, cymbalta.  did you ever consider grief therapy.  they have groups just for parents who have lost children.  i wish you luck.

Briansgirl11
by on Apr. 26, 2012 at 9:42 PM

I have done a therapist when i was 14 and support group but it didn't really work for me for some reason! i think i may have to go back again if i found one in Arizona.

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