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No one will help

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I try to tell my husband, friends, and doctor that Im so depressed and just want to kill myself and no one will listen. Again! They all tell me Im going to be fine but I think I know how I feel better than they do. I want to runaway and leave my family and never come back. I dont care that I sound stupid I just want an easy way out. I feel like my kids arent mine, like they belong to my husband and just him. I dont want to be around any of them and am so angered to be here but Im pretty much forced because he is deployed and please trust me when I say I dont care. He isnt much help when hes around. I feel trapped, panicked and angry as hell.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 9, 2012 at 4:02 AM
Replies (11-15):
Jennpuck
by on May. 10, 2012 at 3:23 AM

Is this a new marriage?

lucy164
by Platinum Member on May. 10, 2012 at 7:28 AM

wow, you have a lot on your plate right now.  you don't need your husband's permission to go and seek help from a psychiatrist or a therapist.  keep going back to the doctor and tell him how miserable you feel and he'll eventualy recommend you see a specialist.  i'm sorry you feel so bad and i hope you can get help soon.

lucy164
by Platinum Member on May. 10, 2012 at 7:34 AM

i just read your reply that husband doesn't put you on his medical coverage.  can he really do that?  can you talk to someone higher up in the military?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 10, 2012 at 7:41 PM

weve been together 4 years. if i talk to anyone higher rank he will kill me. my feelings are just getting worse and im begging him for help. im not seeing any light in this tunnel and i feel im losing this battle and very quick

Hilary799
by on May. 10, 2012 at 7:46 PM
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Talk to a superior honey! Military members are supposed to take care of their families so there's gotta be something someone can do or give advice! If he get's pissed, its his own fault! Have you talked to any wives in the unit? I've been a military spouse and know how its goes. I'm here for you anytime!
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