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Pregnant & missing the dad

Anonymous
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I am 40 years old an 3 mths pregnant, this should be a joyous time and right now its really depressing.  My baby's father is 28 an just has no responsibility what so ever.  Yes I know he's 28!!!!  He wanted this baby so bad at first an now its like he doesn't even care!  I am going to have to start seeeing a Perinatal specialist an I need all this health info from him an I can't get a single thing from him!!  I want to be able to share my concerns an fears and joys with him!!  I miss him, but damn I don't miss his poutyness and just over all unhappiness.  He says he loves me but his actions just show otherwise.  I am going insaine!! I want these feelings of needing him to pass.  

Posted by Anonymous on May. 20, 2012 at 5:52 AM
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lyrick24
by Ruby Member on May. 20, 2012 at 5:59 AM
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 your feelings should pass in time. think about the baby you are going to have. you can do this on your own if you have to. i would still try to get the health info from him. just push him for it.if he pouts and is just not good to be around then you dont need that. dont have toxic people in your life. you will feel beter in the long run. good luck to you.

Kelly_Ann
by on May. 20, 2012 at 11:35 AM
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It is very hard to move on especially when you are pregnant.. but I did when I was first pregnant with my first son. We have no health hostory which sucks.. but I have pretty much every kind of cancer.. heart problems, diabetes etc in my family so I just don't need to know. Anywho. Long story short I decided I was better than the 5 girls he.fucked behind my back and having to babysit his stupid drunk and emotiknally abusive ass. He would do mean things to me then apologize and say he would love me and then done and over with I would forgive him. He was just like my dad. And I hate my dad. So it just clicked and I was like fuck this shit. I met my now husband when I was 8 weeks pregnant and eli moved and changed his number after trying to fuck my roommate... I have been with my husband almost 5 years and happily (for the most part) married for 2. Move on someone will love you and your child more than that idiot ever could (I'm pregnant so a bit of a man hater so take it at face value)
looneymom424
by on May. 20, 2012 at 2:42 PM

Hugs you need to concentrate on the baby not him.  Maybe he will come around or maybe he just liked the idea of having a kid then got scared when it really happened most men do you know.  Give him time maybe he will see the light if not dump him..

SandyLaxner
by Bronze Member on May. 20, 2012 at 4:53 PM

Ditto.  Try to concentrate on the baby.  File for paternity and child support.  You and the baby are number 1 right now.  Take good care.  He is not the kind of father or partner you need.You deserve the best!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 21, 2012 at 8:31 AM

Thank you all!!  He is just not worth the stress or unhappiness!!!


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