I cant have a good day with my 3 year old. She always does something to piss me off. She isn't doing anything wrong, it's me who gets aggrevated and I don't act appropriately. I am going to miss them growing up because of it and I feel like I am going to ruin their personality and their values with the way I act. It''s easier to say "well, just don't do it" I have tried that and can't . I need to talk to someone in confidence without a fear of my kids being taken away. I don't know what to do. I get sooo depressed afterward I cry. I don't know what is wrong with me. Can anyone help?