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Anniversary of Mother's Death

Posted by on Sep. 19, 2012 at 8:59 AM
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A year ago today I lost my mother to cancer. It was a horrible death. I miss her so much. Please pray for me today, if you have the time. It may be a very hard day.

baby girlMissMansMommy

Posted by on Sep. 19, 2012 at 8:59 AM
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mikala76
by Michelle on Sep. 19, 2012 at 9:21 AM
Oh hugs to you hun! You must have been real close to her. There are so many dysfunctional mother-dtr relationships (mine included) that it makes me sad to hear of your mom passing. Was she young?
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vivianbarnes
by Member on Sep. 19, 2012 at 9:29 AM

it is hard to lose a parent. I still get upset on the day my dad died, and during the time he was laid out at the funeral home. I think it is harder on us if they go with such pain an misery. Although my dad didn't die from cancer, he died exactly the way he didn't want to, just like his dad had done many years before. He some how developed sepsis from an unknown source. It was not an easy time, and to this day we (my sisters an I ) do not go to his grave side. I'm sure your mom will be there with you in spirit.  

missmansmommy
by New Member on Sep. 19, 2012 at 9:34 AM

My  mother was 78 when she died. She and I did not always get along, but I still miss her very much.

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vivianbarnes
by Member on Sep. 19, 2012 at 10:34 AM

It is normal to miss them, there are times when I really wish my dad was here. He was only two days shy of being 65 when he died. My dad raped me, so for years we didn't talk, was working on rebuilding that relationship when he passed away.   

matreshka
by Ruby Member on Sep. 19, 2012 at 10:44 AM

You are in my thoughts. Cancer is a horrible illness.  I am sorry your mom passed.

mikala76
by Michelle on Sep. 19, 2012 at 7:26 PM
Wow such wonderful courage you have. your strength is refreshing.


Quoting vivianbarnes:

It is normal to miss them, there are times when I really wish my dad was here. He was only two days shy of being 65 when he died. My dad raped me, so for years we didn't talk, was working on rebuilding that relationship when he passed away.   


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ochoa.mama
by Member on Sep. 20, 2012 at 2:19 AM

I will pray for you to be strong, I know how you fell...I lost mine 5yrs ago to cancer....I wish everyday she was still here...it will get better but you will always have that missing part, Im sorry sweetie, *hugs*

reindeer-c
by Bronze Member on Sep. 20, 2012 at 3:57 AM

Hugs. I am so sorry. A mother is the most special person in one's life. I cannot imagine your pain. I will be thinking of you. Damn cancer!!!

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