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New Year Not Off To A Good Start

Posted by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 9:07 PM
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I was hoping for a better year and a little relief from all the bad things and maybe give my mind amd my mentality a break for a change but no as always it starts off like it may actually be a better year and my crappy luck starts. I have had three deaths this week alone. Monday my Uncle died, Wednesday my Aunt died and then this morning a sweet young lady from our church family was killed in a car accident. I am so tired of death following me. This is only the second week of the new year and here we go. I have very little family left and I dont want to lose them or my friends. I can only hope the bad is getting out of the way early but if it follows it's normsl course ai sm in for another long year.

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by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 9:07 PM
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Jazmyn1
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 10:02 PM
Hugs sorry to hear of your losses
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lyrick24
by Ruby Member on Jan. 12, 2013 at 5:40 AM

 im sorry you are having to deal with all of this. hopefully things will turn around and you can have a good year. try to keep a positive attitude and do things that make you happy however small they may be.

matreshka
by Ruby Member on Jan. 12, 2013 at 11:14 AM

I am really sorry for all your losses.  Maybe going to the memorial services will help you.  I always seem to have calamity follow me and one thing I learned is that I cannot control what happens aropund me but I can control how I deal.  You are allowed to be sad hurt angry, its part of the grieving process.

kim091069
by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 1:46 AM

Thank you for you words of encouragment. Things are still not good as my hubby is eing a donkey to me aout everything I do ut I am dealing. I keep telling myself I am 6 years older and I am a grown woman so it is up to me to stand up or stand down!

kim091069
by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 1:47 AM

thank you the hugs are still uch needed and greatly appreciated!!

kim091069
by on Jan. 27, 2013 at 1:53 AM
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Thank you. Things are still a little rocky okay a lot rocky but I am dealing with it. One would think I am use to things like this and look at this as being as good as it gets but I am not one to give up on finding peace and happiness. Maybe that is why I seem to always e disappointed but I have the love of my children, a roof over my head, clothes to wear and food to eat so I am going to make it!

matreshka
by Ruby Member on Jan. 27, 2013 at 9:34 AM

I am very sorry for your losses. It is really hard to deal with all of that all at once.  Have you looked into a greif support group at all?

kim091069
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 8:24 AM

Yes, I have support but it seems like a waste when they keep leaving. Had another cousin pass just last week.

deltathree
by Gold Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 9:32 AM

so sorry hun - hugs......

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