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Welcome to the Depression Support Center! Please introduce yourself..... Get started here!

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Thank you for joining Depression Support Center!

Feeling depressed or anxious? This is the place for you to connect with other moms about any emotional health issues you are facing.

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by on Jan. 17, 2013 at 3:26 PM
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Cafe Kelly
by Head Admin on Jan. 2, 2014 at 1:26 PM

Hello and welcome to the group. I'm so glad you shared some of your story with us. This group is full of supportive women. ((hugs)).

Quoting dmj1574:

Hello All,

I just wanted to take a second to introduce myself, I've been a member for about a week now but it's taken me a bit to work up the courage to say hello. A little about me - I'm married, mom to 5, grandma to 2 and we all live in Ohio. Honestly, I'd say I've suffered through (or lived through depending how you think about it) depression and anxiety most of my life...I just never realized it or admitted it to myself.  

A few years ago a manager from work basically forced me to the doctor after I mentioned some of the anxiety symptoms (I thought something was going on with my runs in my family) The doctor kept asking me about anxiety and I was getting so upset that I cried in the doctors office but I still would not admit to myself that the life was not full of gumdrops and rainbows.

I guess I was always the one that said everything is going to be ok. I would walk around with a smile and when my husband got stressed or worried I would be right there waiting to tell him everythting would be ok. 

 I grew up I grew up around surrounded by alcoholism (thankfully all really are ok now) My husband has suffered with bouts of severe depression and is disabled (I suspect he may be bipolar be he refuses any kind of treatment for depression/anxiety or anything of the kind... he was on paxil at one point went of abruptly and ended up in a psych ward for a week, he will not discuss it) he's had 4 surgeries and countless procedures on his neck and spine over the last 15 years. In the middle of all that we lost our home in the foreclosure crisis a few years back...even will all be ok :)  There's other things that I'm not ready to talk about but that's enough, right?

In a little over two weeks I turn 40. For most of my adult life I rarely went to the doctor other than when I was pregnant.  The first full blown panic attack I had was when my first grand son was born. I was standing behind my son, and I didn't really realize what was going on with me I thought my heart was going to burst out of my chest. I couldnt catch my breath...I was just so glad my son is so tall and everyone was focused on my daughter-in-law and the joy of the moment and not me. I felt so guilty. The second one was when I took my 12 year old to get a tooth pulled. She was screaming and well it just didn't end well....That's when I finally went to the doctor. He put me on Zoloft which really has helped with the anxiety but not so much with the depression.

I really suck at taking care of myself.... That doctor retired... and It has taken almost two years to find another doctor (not that I tried to hard, when my perscription ran out I went to my husbands but I didn't really feel like he was listening, he just wrote a new perscription....but I took my girls to a new family doctor and instantly knew I loved her!

Anyway,  In the past two years I've started having migrains and an all over general achiness, I cant focus on anything, not that there is much of a desire to do anything to begin with. I barely leave the house unless it's to go to the store around the corner or to take one of the girls to school, I'm terified to drive, I gave up my friends long ago.  I hate the phone. Does anyone dread answering the phone? I do...I hate it. I figure it must be bad news.

I don't know, I'm sorry for rambling...I guess I needed to get this out. I've been writing everything down that I wanted to talk to my doctor about, I've been bringing up issues little by little because I'm really afraid she is going to think I'm a hypochondriac... or crazy, i feel that way ssometimes.

I know life has to be better than this. I love my kids, my family, but I want to enjoy LIFE.

Cafe Kelly
by Head Admin on Jan. 2, 2014 at 1:26 PM

Hello and welcome to the group!

Quoting PurpleCupcake:

Hi I'm Cynthia. I have bipolar, anxiety and ocd. I've known it since I was a child (just knew it). Got an official diagnosis in my early 20s. 

I'm an atypical bipolar because I don't get depressed, Im much more likely to be manic. 

A little about me..

I love cooking and baking, homeschooling and reading.

Nice to meet everyone!

Cafe Kelly
by Head Admin on Jan. 2, 2014 at 1:27 PM

Hello! I'm so glad you found this group.

Quoting mamavalor:

Hi.  I just found this group so I hope to you all can help me how to cope with this condition.  



Cafe Kelly
by Head Admin on Jan. 2, 2014 at 1:27 PM

Hello and welcome ((hugs))

Quoting eemaa:

Hello, I'm new here...I've been dealing with depression ever sience I had my youngest which is 9 years old...I've been on zoloft and it helped most of the time but when I have bigger problems I fall back into it...It has taken a toll on my marriege,Like LearnTeachLove mentioned, I live for my 3 children, almost everyday has been a struggle lately.

Cafe Kelly
by Head Admin on Jan. 2, 2014 at 1:28 PM

Hello and welcome to the group.

Quoting Sunsweet2014:

Hello everyone, 

I have wondered for years what kind of mental health issue I have.  I have seen doctors and counelers with very little improvement.  

Due to years of sexual abuse from more than one person that I was suppose to be able to trust.  It took its toll on me mental.  I am guessing I have PTSD that was worse when I was younger.  Now I am left with anxiety, and depression so I have been told.  also have several health issues that does not help with all this.  

List of how I feel when I am not on meds:

cannot focus 

nail bitting

feel very alone

feel the world would be better off without me.




no energy

no drive

dont want to deal with people or daily life

thank you for your time. 

by Anonymous 14 on Feb. 10, 2014 at 3:43 PM

My first post & new to cafe Moms. I am a single working Mom. I am struggling with depression and am here to seek help and guidance. Thank you.

by Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 1:38 PM
Hello, I have been struggling with depression for a long time, is there such thing as being angry and depressed, at the same time?
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