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Never been depressed til pregnancy

Posted by on Feb. 4, 2013 at 7:21 PM
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For the last three weeks I have been pretty depressed about having a baby. I am just so unwanting of it all right now, that I have been crying and mopey and just depressed. Like today I had a checkup at the DR and just drove home balling because part of me was hoping they couldn't find a heartbeat...

I think some of it is that DF and I were on the rocks very badly before this, in fact I was going to leave him in Oct/Nov. But then there was a traumatic event in his family in Nov, we found out we were preg at the end of Nov, and now I feel stuck.

He wants to work it out, and I kind of want to. But I also really want to leave. We have been trying to work stuff out for a year...

Any suggestions?

by on Feb. 4, 2013 at 7:21 PM
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matreshka
by Ruby Member on Feb. 4, 2013 at 7:31 PM
Honestly, I think if you feel like its time to move on you should. A child will never fix a relationship.
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lyrick24
by Ruby Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 2:52 AM

 i would go to couples counseling. i understand you feel like your stuck but if you two can work together the relationship can get better and you shouldnt feel that way. this can be a joyous time for you if you work together. good luck.

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