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i want get pregnant.. but cant

Posted by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 7:28 PM
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Well I've been very sad lately every one in both my family and my husbands side have babies and they were all accidents and here we are taking medicine and exercising and no baby yet why does it have to be so hard I hate this I want a baby so bad... Please say when it's your time it will happen but we have been trying for and nothing I feel hopeless...
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christinarb
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 7:32 PM
Dont try nd itll happen stop trying for a lil while nd watch ull get pregnant
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elwalters77
by Erica on Feb. 9, 2013 at 8:53 PM
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I've been there. Took 18 months and meds to finally conceive. I was literally about to give up and then found out I was finally pregnant. It's hard. Hugs.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Feb. 9, 2013 at 9:03 PM
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We tried for 2 years the first time and had finally given up when we found out. Good luck to you it will happen.
TNmommaof1
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 9:08 PM
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 I know how you feel.  I went 5 years of trying and nothing.  When we stopped trying I got pregnant.  I am now 24.5 weeks pregnant. 

ashleighmama
by Ashleigh on Feb. 10, 2013 at 2:17 AM
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Ive been there, TWICE! Finally got pregnant with my 1st son on my 3rd month of Clomid, hes now almost 14. Then a few years later I got preg. on my own, with no fertility drugs. Had an ultrasound at 6 weeks and saw the heart beating, at my 10 week dr visit, had another ultrasound and dr told me baby hadnt grown and no longer had a heartbeat. I was so sad, had a D&C the next day. A few months later did 3 months of Clomid again, with no luck. Went through 2 months of fertility shots and intrauterine insemination, no luck. I gave up and was trying to accept that I would only have 1 son. A couple months later I got preggo with my 2nd son, who is now 8. My family is now complete. Dont give up hope mama. It really is true, when you stop focusing so much on it, it happens. Good luck and hugs mama!
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lyrick24
by Ruby Member on Feb. 10, 2013 at 5:28 AM
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 i would keep trying for a while and if you dont get pregnant i would see a fertility specialist. it could be something very simple. good luck.

leahbeah143
by Leah on Feb. 10, 2013 at 10:45 AM

 *hugs*

have you seen a specialist?

Serenity7
by Silver Member on Feb. 10, 2013 at 11:27 AM
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 (((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))

bryanasmom2004
by on Feb. 10, 2013 at 6:25 PM
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It took my husband and I over 2 years to have my daughter. We went and saw specialist and they said that I would never get pregnant. I had Endometriosis really bad. I was 2 weeks away from a hysterectomy when I finally told myself this was it I was not meant to have children. But a few days before surgery I found out that I was pregnant. I only had one child but she was a gift from God. I would not give up and remember Dr.'s can be wrong. Keep your head up. Relax and don't try so hard enjoy the moment and let it happen. And it will. 

pamcruz10
by on Feb. 13, 2013 at 12:08 AM
Thank you so much every one for the replies and hugs :-) some times just venting helps but hearing every ones stories helps even more it gives me hope thank yall so much
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