Long story short, I found out about two years ago that my daughter has been molested by my sons father. Although we have been through that situation and he has been put in prison, she still seems to be bringing it all up. I got her back into therapy but just recently have been told that she needs to be seen weekly now since she told her case worker that she feels like the guy that molested her still yells at her. Any time she's alone, or doesn't have anything to do, she ends up going down this hill of her past.
But I dont know if I'm being any help.
I dont live near any family, nor any friends. My parents split up and moved away, and my brother has his family to worry about. And with everything that has happend in my life, I worry about getting close to anyone. And I think it effects my DD because she is such a social butterfly. She wants to go spend nights at other friends houses, or have friends come over all the time, but I cant get myself to talk to the other kids mom. And I worry about her getting close to her friends, I dont want her hurt anymore than what she has already has been. Let alone be hurt like I have been on top of that. I know that I need therapy but between my son and his development delays, my DD and her therapy appointments, appts for dentist, yearly checkups, DD had hearing problems because she keeps getting ear wax build-up. Its like my middle child is the only one I haven't had consistent appointments for, and thinking about setting up more appointments for my therapy just feels more like added stress, more work to miss out on, or more struggle to figure out how to manage my schedule, I dont even have either of the exes in the picture to help me, not even a sign of child support either.
I just feel so overwhelmed, I want to help DD, help her deal with what has happened so she can move on from it.....
on Mar. 17, 2013 at 10:51 PM