You know I do not see another group to go rant about this but I guess a lot of my depression stems from this so this seems like a great place. So my mom doesn't get it. I am not spoiled or anything but like I see things on facebook from my aunt her sister like she arraganges all these great holiday events with all her kids and Grand kids Easter egg coloring and hunts, costume parties and trick or treating as a family, Christmas dinners, ect and I do that with my family but I just wish once in a while my Mom would show that much interest as a Grandma. She never tries to do anything with my kids or for them unless I plan it and invite her. And let me remind you my oldest brother has 1 kid my mom never sees and then there are mine and those are her only Grand kids. You would think she would always be around. Like my best friend calls me complaining how annoying her mom is because she is always around and always trying to help../ I am always like how hard it must be to have a mom who shows up to help with the laundry or buy your kids school supplies and clothes I do not get how she complains so much. My Mom does nothing. Maybe I am being ungreatful or selfish but I just wish my Mom showed half the interest these other Mom's show.