in my 40's
been divorced 2x (currently in a committed relay for 8 yrs)
survived 2 teens and currently surviving another
been lied to, cheated on--who hasn't by the time they are middle aged?
still....biggest fear is in being a poor judge of character and letting someone in my life that would willingly betray me
i'm not talking about casual friends or acquaintances
i'm talking about SO, kids, fam, the close friends i do have (have become quite selective in who I trust)
firm believer in trusting someone means I don't have to know everything--I just have to believe that person would never purposefully betray me
what's your greatest fear?