Hi there. My name is Kathee. I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter named Serenity. My husband and I have been together over 8 years. Lately I have been having the feeling of having a second child, but my hubby says "No, one is enough." I just do not agree with him. Neither of us were only children. I am the oldest of 4 and he is the oldest of 3. I know that he did not have a very good childhood, and that maybe part of the reason he doesn't want another. I think that is being selfish. I feel that our daughter should have a sibling to grow up with. Learning to share and having someone to play with and all the other things that come with having a sibling. I feel like he isn't even considering the effect it is having on me. When we talk about it, it either ends in an arguement or him just putting up a wall. I am looking for advice.