I came across your comment on cafe mom regarding an abusive relationship. I think I might be in one. I have known my bf for 6 years dating 1 1/2 years. I haven't been able to get a job and he pays the bills and constantly calls me names like whore, slut bitch, dumb, stupid. He tells me to get a job and pay my half of the rent, so I look for work and finally after 3 months I found a job. I worked for 4 months between that year we've been together. He works nights on weekends and I answer the phone for his taxi service but since I am going to start working I don't think I will be able to work his night time job on weekends. My hours vary some days I will work from 8am to 5pm and some days from 5pm to 11pm. His night time job for me to answer the phones is from 10pm to 5 am. I told him how will I be able to work this job and your job as well? He says he doesn't care I have to do both and if I can't I have to quit my job. But he was the one constantly yelling at me to work.. He makes no sense. Idk what to do I need someone else's point of view that doesn't know me and him to tell me am I crazy? Or what should I do?
on Jun. 17, 2013 at 3:40 PM