My fiance (who struggles with being bi polar) is having a hard time this past week with his emotions. last 2 days he has been very depressed even suicidal. i talked to him and we decided he should go into the hospital and get on meds and get help until he is stable. My friend who i wont name had recently helped him get a new job with the company she works for, so she asked today if he was going to training and i told her he had to go into the hospital and why and her biggest concern was her job and whether or not she would have issues with her job with the company for recommending him. now i understand that, but as a friend who needs her friend, i would think her biggest concern would be that my fiance who is also her friend needs help. my other friend also unnamed is saying things along the line of well hope it even works. and that her sister went in and everyine there is assholes and that she feels bad he has to be away from us and wished he didnt have to (of course that part isnt bad) but i just feel like come on where the hell is the support?