**Update**Is my husband being unsupportive??
So I was really well all spring and summer but now I'm not doing so well. My severe fatigue, which we presume is depression, is back. My dh takes me to my dr's appointments (about every 2 months) b/c I have a fear of driving into the city. Otherwise, I drive regularly....just not to Philadelphia. He works full time so I understand that it takes him away from work to take me.
I just talked to him and said, "Thank God my appointment is tomorrow because I am really not doing well." He said, "I'm not glad about it because I have things to do."
Couldn't he say something nice about getting me better or that it was good timing because I'm so fatigued/down? He didn't complain about taking me when I was doing well.
I feel like he has a hard time being supportive when I'm suffering :(
**Well, he had a crazy day at work. He expected it to be quiet but had this huge financial transaction he didn't expect...hard to describe, so I'm not too upset about his reaction. I am now reading up on "crashing fatigue during perimenopause". I think this could be part of what's going on with me. Thanks for the replies!