Removing toxic mother/daughter relationship. for the glory of GOD!
We both said goodbye. Well she has came to our door a good four or five times. I did not answer door to her. I feel very uncomfortable when she is in my presence. She has text me she wants to see my boys.
I have not responded to her. She said basically she not going to stop calling and coming over. But her words were sort of threatening. I do not want my boys subject to her behavior,the way she acts,and doesn't even understand that she shouldn't mistreat or disrespect your grandchildren's mother in front of them. My sister quit speaking to her years ago because she feels the same way I do. She does not want her children subjected to her behaviors either. I just now realized everything my sister had been saying all this time.
I also became a true Christian within the year! I went through therapy and I realized and my dh realize when she isn't around bringing me low I do very well in life. I do well day to day. Praise God! Thank You Jesus! I feel the LORD doesn't want her around us either.I cannot live my days being brought low. I have to stay Strong in my faith,and raise my boys up in the Church,and in a Good environment for them to learn & grow properly... Should I even respond to her text's?
I just keep on praying for her daily. In hopes she will turn her life over to Jesus! Then someday she will understand. Plus, I will be happy for mother to be saved :)
Prayer is powerful............
In the meantime I really hope she will just leave well enough alone.