Can somebody tell me how I should deal with this???
So, my son's ex was spending time with this guy on the weekends when his daughter was with him. Fine. Now she thinks it is O.K. to bring this guy that she barely knows around her daughter, and he's spending the night!!! Everybody that my son talks to says this is wrong that there's no way she should be bringing this guy around the little girl yet, let alone spending the night. I wish I could say I trust her, but I don't. How does she go from such an overprotective mother to this??? Since my hubby worked today, he is sleeping. I took a shower and just cried. I took many deep breathes, and I still am. How in the hell do I, and my son, deal with this bitch just bringing any Tom, Dick or Harry around my grandchild??? I'm just so pissed I just want to ask her what the hell she thinks she's doing. I don't know if I have it in me to deal with this for the next 17 or whatever years. I know I have to talk about it at my next counseling appointment, but I'm just so pissed right now. I cannot believe how much money this woman has cost my son and us. The legal fees plus counseling. She's just going on her merry way still thinking she didn't do anything wrong and it's all my son's fault. I can't frickin do this, I don't think I can!