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Oy vey! My life

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Hi guys, I need someone to talk to too. So I will post here. I have been feeling depressed lately (I have had a good streak of non depressionness). I have been doing the same boring stressful thing for a little under a year now. I don't see an end. I have no friends and no social life. I got to school two days a week for a few hours and then work. I work at restaurant. I love the Social interaction there but I know they are not good people with good habits, of you know what I mean (drugs, sex, alcohol, partying etc) but it is the only way I fit in. But I am making poor choices. Which is not me!! But u make good money, which I choice to spend on shopping and collecting. I don't see my life going anywhere! I am not going to college next year because I can't find what I want. I see all the people I know with boyfriends and lives it makes me jealous. I feel I need a drastic change, but don't know what, when, why or how! I am bored of where I live and my daily life. I need friends, I need a social life. I need an adventure!!! But I feel stuck. I am financially and emotionally (for the most part) dependent on my parents. I have a close relationship with them. I want to become dependent, strong, healthy but I don't know how! I feel like I am wasting my life away. I don't want to become like the people at my work. I just worked a 14 hour shift for others because it kept me busy, making money, takes my mind off things, social interaction etc. I am sorta smart (3.4 GPA) I feel like it isn't good enough to go anywhere. I just don't know!! Have any of you been in this situation?? My parents are open to a change/me leaving etczz. But they want me to be realistic. And sometimes (all the time) I am a dreamer. Sink or swim is my motto!! How should I get out of this?? Help!!
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 15, 2015 at 3:47 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 15, 2015 at 3:55 AM
My life exactly
lyrick24
by Group Admin on Mar. 15, 2015 at 1:51 PM

 i would try focusing on myself and not a relationship right now. if you think you have a bad job, then get a job somewhere else. if your parents are mostly supporting you, you need to find a better job anyway. i wouldnt quit school. try to find something you are interested in and go for it while you can. you can meet people at school to socialize with.

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