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NO! . . .well, not really? . . .maybe???

Posted by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 7:34 PM
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"You have the right to say no. Most of us have very weak and flaccid "no" muscles. We feel guilty saying no. Your no muscle has to be built up. The more you say no, the more it comes naturally." - Iyanla Vanzant

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by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 7:34 PM
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Alyson121
by Alyson on Jan. 23, 2013 at 7:35 PM

This is SOOOO mean. I feel very guilty when i say no, especially if the other party gives me grief about not doing something THEY want me too. *sigh*

Bleacheddecay
by Bronze Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 8:24 PM

Yep. Learning to say no is a good thing for everyone. You can't do everything for everyone though many of us try.

Jillysmom
by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 8:25 PM
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I say no all the time, ask my hubby,lol

calimom1123
by Member on Jan. 23, 2013 at 8:35 PM
Me too! I actually have the opposite problem, I always say no first..lol


Quoting Jillysmom:

I say no all the time, ask my hubby,lol


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cookinmommyof1
by Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 12:00 AM
I used to have a problem saying no. Nthen I got sick of being stepped on, and I say no a lot. You can't help everyone
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darbyakeep45
by Darby on Jan. 24, 2013 at 7:59 AM

I hate saying no...it just feels wrong!  LOL!

SabrinaLC
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 8:57 AM

I say no a lot

well, not straight out no

I can come up with 1,000 excuses though

mypbandj
by Jen on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:20 AM
What does "no" mean? Never heard of it. Lol
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Schleetle
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:45 AM
I flex mine around MIL all the time. :P
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Alyson121
by Alyson on Jan. 24, 2013 at 8:42 PM

So very true.

Quoting Bleacheddecay:

Yep. Learning to say no is a good thing for everyone. You can't do everything for everyone though many of us try.


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