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SD Tumor GREAT GREAT NEWS TO UPDATE (Graphic pic)

Posted by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:38 PM
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Well last weds she had her surgery and I am so so happy to report that the Blessings we have needed happened! Turns out once they got back in there what they thought to be New Tumor Growth was actually scar tissue from 1st surgery there was a small amount and the Surgeon said he did go at it aggressively this time but a big part of both her nose & cheek bone was saved!!! He also feels that with this Tumor they have narrowed it down and ARE YOU READY There does NOT show a need for Radiation or chemo that it is more then 80% positive that this surgery is enough that once it is all removed they are hopeful this will not return. We will however know for sure in 1 month when they do the next scan. But as for now everything we prayed for is happening. They don't plan to do reconstructive for 6-10 months. She is out of the woods thank Jesus and thank you all for your prayers. 

Also happy to say that ttc baby #5 has also comensed :) it is time for our family to have a blessing to be joyful about and something Happy to forward too!

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TonyaLea
by Tonya - Group Mod on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:17 PM

That is great news!

Out of curiosity, what is the yellow stuff in the pic?  Gauze/cotton?  The wound itself doesn't look nearly as bad as I was thinking it would, but it does look really painful, poor girl.

new_mom808
by Andrea - Group Mod on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:29 PM
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 That is AWESOME!!!!! I'm so happy for your family  :)

suzysdaughter
by Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:39 PM


Quoting TonyaLea:

That is great news!

Out of curiosity, what is the yellow stuff in the pic?  Gauze/cotton?  The wound itself doesn't look nearly as bad as I was thinking it would, but it does look really painful, poor girl.

That is the packing they will remove it soon

Mipsy
by Bronze Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 9:22 PM
OMG!!! I want to hug all of you especially that darling sd of yours who is so brave! I am so happy for you guys! Please keep us updated as she heals :) She's amazing and so are all of you! The support you have shown her is amazing!
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rebeccasmly
by Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 9:26 PM
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I am so happy there is good news!!

suzysdaughter
by Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 9:57 PM


Quoting Mipsy:

OMG!!! I want to hug all of you especially that darling sd of yours who is so brave! I am so happy for you guys! Please keep us updated as she heals :) She's amazing and so are all of you! The support you have shown her is amazing!

I wish we were all working together still but since the surgery I am back to being "The whore" and "enjoy sloppy seconds, second wife" I am not needed anymore. Wasn't even thanked when i used my taxes to pay for all of our suites for 5 days so we could all be by her for the surgery. It is actually getting really sad again. Now that BM is no longer distracted I am not welcome to co parent any longer :( not surprised but def heart broken cause the kids saw it Sunday not good, not good for anyone. So as her Step mom I will step back now and wait til I am needed again and of course I will will Step up and do my part. Sad we can only work together when a kid is so sick and even sader is after going threw all that still the peddy childish jealous behavior returns..Heart broken here truly heart broken

TerriC
by Terri - Group Mod on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:44 AM

YAY!  I am so thrilled to hear this news!  <3

TerriC
by Terri - Group Mod on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:45 AM

=(  that is a shame.

Quoting suzysdaughter:


Quoting Mipsy:

OMG!!! I want to hug all of you especially that darling sd of yours who is so brave! I am so happy for you guys! Please keep us updated as she heals :) She's amazing and so are all of you! The support you have shown her is amazing!

I wish we were all working together still but since the surgery I am back to being "The whore" and "enjoy sloppy seconds, second wife" I am not needed anymore. Wasn't even thanked when i used my taxes to pay for all of our suites for 5 days so we could all be by her for the surgery. It is actually getting really sad again. Now that BM is no longer distracted I am not welcome to co parent any longer :( not surprised but def heart broken cause the kids saw it Sunday not good, not good for anyone. So as her Step mom I will step back now and wait til I am needed again and of course I will will Step up and do my part. Sad we can only work together when a kid is so sick and even sader is after going threw all that still the peddy childish jealous behavior returns..Heart broken here truly heart broken


jenandpetersmom
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 1:00 PM

That is AWESOME NEWS!!!!!!!

HetherElizabeth
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 1:51 PM
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So happy to hear the great news!!! That's so sad that the bio mom is acting that way towards you. It sounds like she's a bit jealous of you in some way. But again Yaay for the great news!
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