I usually never ask for these kind of opinions but today I'm on the fence...ok so this is my DS first time in school b/c I home schooled him before my dd is having a much easier transition then ds.. past few months Ds for some reason has gotten into a back and fourth with another boy in his class. and about 10 days ago it escalated and my son was relentlessly calling him "a poopy head" now initially 2 months ago it was the other kid who was the aggressor... my son has just somehow "getting him back" I Spoke with Steven (my son) we role played....it got better all week until Friday my son nagged him AGAIN ! GRR and the kid final hauled off and threw my sons boot at him (right in the face)-- and although my son has not ever laid hands on him IMHO I don;t think Connor was wrong and when I got the call Steven was hurt by him I said "well maybe he'll leave him a lone now"... and I told Steven when he got home "I'm sorry for your bubu [I kissed cleaned and made it better] but really you deserved it and you know it-- this weekend I've gotten 4 emails from his teacher astonished at my reaction???
Now earlier in the school year my DD who has returned to school (3rd grader)-- had a issue with a 5th grade boy bullying her on the school bus- I called the principle I called the teacher I called the bus company --2 weeks later it's still going on-- more calls no solution soo--
she has been in MMA for a while and was confident - beginning of week 3 he started AGAIN with her this time she whooped his a** (and she's half his size)-- and I would NOT let the school discipline her in any way and they did not and I did not either --it was a brief discussion at home and done-- her MMA teacher had a 1:1 with her for over an hour but she felt good when they were done -- I was fine with that too-- his parents never showed either at the school "meeting''-- I think b/c if they were going to persue their son's injuries from my dd I would persue sexual harrasssment charges on their 11 year old --it was caught on camera the bus is on survalence --
So this is how I am dealing with bullying..... are you putting me on the bad Mommy list?