My husband has been a CO at a Maximum Security faciliy in NY state for about 4 years now. I have seen unwanted changes in him over the past year or so. He has become negative and cynical. He tends to be racist when he was not at all before. He has even started abusing his power, not following laws because all he has to do is show his badge and won't get a ticket and is not behaving in a professional manner while at work (everyone else does it, I don't understand, they can get away with it, etc) I'm not impressed with the person he has become and am afraid of what he will be in the future. We had a huge arguement about it last night. I don't know what to do. Has anyone else noticed these changes in their CO husbands?