I am looking for some friends to be a support network for me.
I am looking for some people who would be willing to be my friends on Cafemom and help me with this difficult journey. Please, if you'd be willing to talk to me, encourage me, give me advice or even tell me how disgusting (or good) I look in my pictures I would appreciate it.
I just set up this "fake" profile today but it is a fake profile because I am so ashamed of myself. I will add pictures and keep a list of the foods I am eating, the exercise I am doing, and the things I am going through emotionally from day to day. I am only 21. 21!!! I should be thin and beautiful.
I just sincerely need some people to help support me, and I don't have any real friends and cafemom is the only place I can think of to turn to. If you're interested in helping me please invite me to be your friend and you can follow me on my journey.
Here are my "before" pictures, so you can all see how honest and desparate I really am. I really, really need this. For my health, and for my daughter. Please help me. 


Me too. I weigh 235 and I am 28. I have been overweight through most of my ten years of marriage and I am also looking for some friends to support me. Most of the people in my life are thin so none of them understand what I am going through.
Quoting Slovak:
I'll make you a deal you help me I'll help you :) I weigh 240 and I am 24 lets do this together huh?
Me 3. I weigh 202 @ 32, I did weigh 220 pounds last November, lost 20 lbs, then gained 5 back. I weighed 205 two weeks ago & lost 3 pounds, so I now weigh 202. I haven't been under 200 lbs in I don't know how long. I will all three of you, together we can help each other become the healthier women we want to be for US & OUR CHILDREN. God Bless!
Quoting Soccermom9810:Me too. I weigh 235 and I am 28. I have been overweight through most of my ten years of marriage and I am also looking for some friends to support me. Most of the people in my life are thin so none of them understand what I am going through.
Quoting Slovak:
I'll make you a deal you help me I'll help you :) I weigh 240 and I am 24 lets do this together huh?
Quoting Soccermom9810:Me too. I weigh 235 and I am 28. I have been overweight through most of my ten years of marriage and I am also looking for some friends to support me. Most of the people in my life are thin so none of them understand what I am going through.
Quoting Slovak:
I'll make you a deal you help me I'll help you :) I weigh 240 and I am 24 lets do this together huh?
Lets do this together im 234 ish depends on what day i weigh and im almost 29 fee, free to add me and lets talk
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- FatGirl239
on Nov. 18, 2009 at 11:39 AM