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HELP Where can I start?

Posted by on Jul. 12, 2010 at 8:45 PM
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 My name is Linda, I like to loose 25 pounds and I don't know where or how start, ok this si me:

I'm vegan for 10 years now, mother of 4kids, and usually I did't have problems with aeight before my youngest baby, now I don't feel confortable with my weight, by the way I don't speak english very well but I like to have some help and motivation, Help Please..........shake hand

by on Jul. 12, 2010 at 8:45 PM
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by on Jul. 12, 2010 at 8:49 PM

I have 4 kids too and since January I have lost 20 pounds.

Make sure you are eating every few hours. No more than 4 hours between eating. Make sure all of your snacks and meals have some protein in them. They all need a balance of fat, carbs and protein. Eat as clean as possible (cutting out processed foods, refined sugars). Make sure your grains are  whole grains. Also, I do not know if you eat much of the fake meat products but they have a lot of sodium and are just too processed.

And make sure you get exercise in. Cardio and strength training.

by on Jul. 12, 2010 at 10:09 PM

well, I don't eat any refined product just whole grains raw sugar or honey, and maple syrup, but I'm not very in the swets stuffs, no to much fake products eather but I just eat twice a day and no excercise, I know I need star with it ASAP

by on Jul. 14, 2010 at 11:15 AM

Hi Linda!  Welcome!  These are some tips and sample menu that I've posted for some other women today.  It seems that everyone has the same frustrations this morning.  LOL.  I hope it helps you. 

  1. Get rid of any processed, refined, pre-packaged foods within your kitchen.
  2. Try to eat 5-6 meals per day... even if this includes your 3 regular meals and two snacks.  This will boost your metabolism tremendously.
  3. Make sure you are getting in a protein, veggie/fruit, and essential fat at every single meal... even with snacks.
  4. With including a protein... this includes extra lean beef, skinless chicken breast, white turkey, pork tenderloin, fish, egg whites, low-fat cottage cheese, plain Greek yogurt, skim milk, low-carb protein shake (approx. 17-25 grams protein).  Servings per meal should be 4-5 ounces of meats, 1/2-1 cup of cottage cheese or yogurt, and 8-16 ounces of milk.
  5. With carbs... this includes veggies, fruits, and whole grains.  However, only have your whole grains AFTER a good workout session like resistance or weight training, kickboxing, hiking, etc.  This should be the only time you have whole grains such as "whole grain" bread, brown or wild rice, potatoes, sweet potatoes, and oatmeal.  Even with that, stick to only 1/3 to 1/2 cup of rice or oatmeal, 3-4 ounces of potatoes, and 1 slice of bread.  Try to get in 5-10 veggie servings per day... this would be 1/2 to 1 cup per serving... and this is the extremely important for you to lose weight.  When it comes to fruit, stick to only metabolic resistance fruits such as apples, pears, grapefruit, and berries.  Blueberries and grapefruit are excellent in burning fat, especially belly fat.  Stick to "small" apples, pears, and grapefruits.  For berries, 1/3 to 2/3 cup is good.
  6. With essential fats... this includes nuts such as walnuts and almonds which are the two most important nuts in busting fat, especially belly fat.  Stick to 1-3 TBS. per serving.  Use oils for cooking or salads such as extra virgin olive oil, flaxseed oil, coconut oil, and canola oil... 1-2 teaspoons per serving.  And, use avocados on your salad.  Most importantly, take 2-3 grams of a good quality fish oil per day.  Essential fats are extremely important when trying to burn fat. 
  7. Use measuring tools such as a food scale, measuring cups, and measuring spoons for your food.  The eyeball method isn't always accurate, and sometimes our stomachs make us see things smaller when we are hungry.  If you don't have a food scale, you can get a very economical one at Walmart or your local grocery store for about $7-8.
  8. Drink lots of water and green tea.  Don't drink juices, sodas (not even the diet sodas), or anything else ladened with sugars or artificial sweeteners.  If you need a sweetener for your green tea, use Splenda or Stevia.  Build your water up to 2 liters to a gallon per day.  It will flush the toxins out of your body including the fat.
  9. In preparing your foods and to make it simpler for you since you work, try to take a couple hours out one day (maybe on your day off) and prepare all your meats... just grill or bake them as it's easy.  Slice and dice your veggies and refrigerate... that way you can just grab them when you need them... wash your fruits ahead of time... and do whatever else you can to make the weekly process of preparing and cooking your foods easier for you.  It really does help!
  10. If you aren't currently working out, try to get some activity in each and every day... at least 5-6 days per week. 

A sample menu would be like the following:

  1. Meal #1 - Breakfast:  3-4 egg whites (stores sell carton egg whites), 2 slices low-sodium turkey bacon, some veggies (such as onion, tomatoes, green peppers, mushrooms, or whatever other veggies you desire), 1/2 to 1 ounce of cheese --> make an omelet... use a non-stick EVOO (extra virgin olive oil spray) to saute your veggies and cook your eggs.  Drink green tea for your beverage.  Also, take 2 fish oil pills.
  2. Meal #2 - Snack:  1/2 cup low-fat cottage cheese, 1/3 cup blueberries, and 3 TBS. crumbled walnuts.
  3. Meal #3 - Lunch:  1 can chunky light tuna in water, 2 cups Romaine lettuce, 1 small tomato, 1/2 large cucumber, 1/4 cup onions, 2 TBS. regular low-sugar/carb salad dressing.  (Don't worry about the fat in the dressing as it is "good" fats that your body needs to flush out the bad fats.
  4. Meal #4 - Snack:  Low-carb protein shake, 1 small apple, 14 whole almonds.
  5. Meal #5 - Dinner:  4-5 ounces skinless grilled chicken breast, 1-2 cups of green veggies (such as broccoli, asparagus, kale, collards, spinach, green beans, etc.), and 1-1/2 teaspoons of regular butter (not margarine) or EVOO sprinkled on your veggies.
  6. Meal #6 - Snack:  1/2 cup low-fat cottage cheese, 1/2 cup sliced strawberries, 2 TBS. crumbled walnuts or slivered almonds.  (Don't worry about eating after a certain time.  you should eat within an hour before going to bed so that your muscles don't break down during the fasted state of sleeping.  You are not getting any whole grains or starches here, so you will be just fine.)

The above sample meals for the day is great for a non-workout or cardio day.  You may substitute one of the meals for AFTER a workout with a sample of the following:

  1. Sample 1:  1 slice whole grain bread (Ezekiel is the best and is in the frozen section), 4-5 ounces of deli oven roasted chicken or turkey breast, 16 ounces of milk (DO NOT add mayo to your sandwich or any fat.  It is very important that you get the carbs into your muscles after your workout, so you don't want to slow down the process with adding fats here.  This is the only meal that contains NO fats.)
  2. Sample 2:  1/2 cup Old Fashioned oatmeal, a metabolic resistance fruit (such as grapefuit, apple, or berries), and low-carb protein shake
  3. Sample 3:  1/2 cup brown or wild rice, 4-5 ounces skinless chicken breast, and grapefruit.

I can guarantee you will lose weight... and not just weight but FAT... if you stick to these guidelines, foods, and measurements.  If they aren't simple enough for you, then try starting with a few to get you started... and then another few... until you have built up to a healthy meal plan.  Good luck!  And, keep me informed on how you're doing!


~ Abby Campbell, MOD, Healthy Weight Loss

"All I have is today. All I have is this moment, this workout, this meal, the next 30 minutes, the next hour. If I just do what I know I must do now, then I know I'll reach my ultimate goal eventually."  ~Tom Venuto, Bodybuilder

by on Jul. 16, 2010 at 2:40 PM

OK, thanks for the information, I would need change  a lot of the information because I don't eat non of animal products but I can substitute for something. thanks

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