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Maybe I Shouldn't be losing weight?

Posted by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 10:37 AM
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Ive been at trying to hit 125 for ever. I get to 128 and then back up to 130. I'm trying soooo hard but i just can't get there. Im eating within my calories. Mfp has been telling me if I keep eating like I'm eating I will be 125 in 5 weeks for a loooong time. Any ideas? I definitely have weight to lose in my tummy. I'm gettin frustrated.
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mom_of2_n_twins
by Nicole on Feb. 16, 2012 at 10:41 AM

None here....I'm at 142 when i was 140 friday :/....and I'm trying my hardest to get to like 135....Im telling myself not to focus so much on the weight loss but to just do the best I can to get into my "goal" pants so if I stay the same and tone up I won't complain so much ;) maybe put the scale up for a bit and just relax stressing induces hormones in our bodies that cause us to hold on to fat cells and can actually make us gain weight.....

jendawn1
by Group Mod on Feb. 16, 2012 at 11:49 AM
Hugs I Know how fustraiting it can be.
How's you water intake? What kinds of foods are you eating? What kinds of exercise are you doing? Have you changed it up at all?
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ProudShammy3
by Steph on Feb. 16, 2012 at 12:14 PM

Are you being strict enough with numbers? Meaning, even if you work out for an hour, and you burn 300 calories, are you subtracting the time you worked out? When in reality you only burned 240? Also, are you using a HRM or body bugg to make sure you are actually burning what you are recording on MFP? (I suggest getting a scale as well to make sure you are measuring your food right) When you hit a plaetue it is time to get to the nitty gritty. I am currently at 106 and was at 109 a few weeks ago so I know it is going to drop, very steady, because I am also building muscle.
And on that note, I may never go below 106 for that very reason! Muscle! Like the saying goes, the scale isn't everything. If you are building muscle, you aren't going to continue seeing numbers drop. BUT it takes a while to build muscle, so that is why people see an immediete drop and then slow down if you are toning.

One last thing! Are you eating too little? It can cause you to bloat. This number is different for everyone, but the suggested net calories is 1200 a day, you may go over but NEVER under.

MamaKarrot
by Karen - Group Mod on Feb. 16, 2012 at 12:26 PM
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Maybe I have a bias here, but I think you look freaking amazing.  I don't think the number should be so important when you already look so great.

twinsies041
by Ciara on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:11 PM
Your amazingly sweet but I still have such a big tummy when I sit down.
I'm honestly beginning to wonder if I'm being a bit too hard on myself or maybe unrealistic? I have a very hectic life and maybe now isn't the best time to strive to be in the best shape of my life ya know? Blah blah blah it's just one of those days I guess


Quoting MamaKarrot:

Maybe I have a bias here, but I think you look freaking amazing.  I don't think the number should be so important when you already look so great.


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twinsies041
by Ciara on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:14 PM
Definitely not eating too little. I'm wondering if I'm going over everyday because I'm not counting my calories accurately. I don't usually eat back what mfp says I burn. I just eat if I feel extra hungry. I'm eating about 1500 a day so I know I'm getting plenty. I keep thinking its that I'm not eating clean enough. I still cheat quite often. I have tried to cut out most processed foods but I think I'm still eatin way to much sugar and sodium? I should get more serious about what I'm putting in my body I guess.


Quoting ProudShammy3:

Are you being strict enough with numbers? Meaning, even if you work out for an hour, and you burn 300 calories, are you subtracting the time you worked out? When in reality you only burned 240? Also, are you using a HRM or body bugg to make sure you are actually burning what you are recording on MFP? (I suggest getting a scale as well to make sure you are measuring your food right) When you hit a plaetue it is time to get to the nitty gritty. I am currently at 106 and was at 109 a few weeks ago so I know it is going to drop, very steady, because I am also building muscle.
And on that note, I may never go below 106 for that very reason! Muscle! Like the saying goes, the scale isn't everything. If you are building muscle, you aren't going to continue seeing numbers drop. BUT it takes a while to build muscle, so that is why people see an immediete drop and then slow down if you are toning.


One last thing! Are you eating too little? It can cause you to bloat. This number is different for everyone, but the suggested net calories is 1200 a day, you may go over but NEVER under.


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ProudShammy3
by Steph on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:26 PM

Hmmstrange. Well sometimes you just hit these road bumps, but stay positive and you will make it through! All I can suggest is say don't eat too little. (I know I said it before but it is important) Sodium could be the culprit... I know on days I eat a lot of sodium I gain a pound (or a few if its A LOT). Have you thought of trying a new diet plan? I have a friend who hit a plateau and started the Atkins diet and lost her last 10lbs. She swears by it. I have not tried it, but it is a suggestion!

Quoting twinsies041:

Definitely not eating too little. I'm wondering if I'm going over everyday because I'm not counting my calories accurately. I don't usually eat back what mfp says I burn. I just eat if I feel extra hungry. I'm eating about 1500 a day so I know I'm getting plenty. I keep thinking its that I'm not eating clean enough. I still cheat quite often. I have tried to cut out most processed foods but I think I'm still eatin way to much sugar and sodium? I should get more serious about what I'm putting in my body I guess.

darbyakeep45
by Group Mod-Darby on Feb. 17, 2012 at 5:26 AM

I totally agree!

Quoting MamaKarrot:

Maybe I have a bias here, but I think you look freaking amazing.  I don't think the number should be so important when you already look so great.


wahmx3
by Shelley on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:53 AM

How much water are you drinking? Do you drink soda, especially diet soda? How much do you exercise? Do you eat back your exercise calories, especially if you have exercised hard or several days in a row. Do you get enough sleep? Too much stress? Just things to ask yourself and see if any of them apply and could be the issue.

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