i know how i should be eating and i found workouts that i really like and can definitely make time to do them but something big keeps bringing me down!!! i dont want to be a twig i just want to be healthy and toned. i dont know how much i weigh cause i dont own a scale but weight doesnt matter to me. i want to be firm again! lol its weird coming from a 22 year old but after having my son i feel like my self esteem just went to an all time low!! i cant see a pretty girl without thinking my SO is looking at her and wishing i were the same! its a huge problem and its getting to the point that every little comment he makes or even eating in front of him makes me uncomfortable and i cry about it sometimes! im not overweight and everyone tells me im fine and just need to work out and make healthier food choices but i feel horrible about myself. has anyone else had this problem and what did you do about it to change your lifestyle and self esteem??