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I'm gross...?

Posted by on Sep. 19, 2013 at 9:56 PM
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So I went to see an old friend for lunch today.  She is naturally skinny, never works out or anything cause she doesn't realy have to.  I was wearing this tank top cause its still kinda hot over here.  One of the first things she said to me was that I had to stop lifting weights because my shoulers look gross.


I was like.... I look gross?


She said yea, I'm looking gross. Too "musclely"  The pic I have is kinda big, so I'll just post a link to it.


http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=fjda4k&s=5#.UjunAxb3D-Y 


I don't beleive I look bulky or gross, lol.  I think she is nuts.  



by on Sep. 19, 2013 at 9:56 PM
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v2011
by on Sep. 19, 2013 at 9:57 PM
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You may have to cut and paste that link, sorry, lol, I'm a new mac user and I suck at this :)

cj123573
by Member on Sep. 19, 2013 at 10:20 PM
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I wanna look "gross" too!! 

I think your shoulders look great!  I'm glad you think she's nuts, I do too. 

v2011
by on Sep. 19, 2013 at 10:23 PM

Thanks!   See! I'm not bulky! 

Lol, but I have to be honest, even if everyone on here told me I looked gross, I don't think I would stop lifting weights.


I likes it :)


Quoting cj123573:

I wanna look "gross" too!! 

I think your shoulders look great!  I'm glad you think she's nuts, I do too. 



tiredmomfor2
by ~Lyndsay~ on Sep. 19, 2013 at 10:24 PM
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wow! I hope I am that gross some days!
v2011
by on Sep. 19, 2013 at 10:37 PM

Thanks you guys.

But seriously, she kinda knows that her opinion means a lot to me.  I feel like there is some weird...I don't know, like underlaying hate.  I don't know if my feelings were hurt that a friend would say something like that, or what.  But her tone was strange, not like a person just saying things without thinking, but that she really meant to hurt me. 

tiredmomfor2
by ~Lyndsay~ on Sep. 19, 2013 at 10:51 PM
Maybe she is jealous or something.
I'm sorry she was so hateful sounding. You look amazing. Don't let her bring you down. If she is really like that, then you probably don't need her nnegativity anyways.


Quoting v2011:

Thanks you guys.

But seriously, she kinda knows that her opinion means a lot to me.  I feel like there is some weird...I don't know, like underlaying hate.  I don't know if my feelings were hurt that a friend would say something like that, or what.  But her tone was strange, not like a person just saying things without thinking, but that she really meant to hurt me. 


calebsmommy05
by Member on Sep. 19, 2013 at 11:25 PM
You look fantastic! I am sorry she was so mean :(
MaiasMommy619
by on Sep. 19, 2013 at 11:34 PM
I think she's hating.. Or doesn't know what healthy looks like! You look great!
momto1ryen
by Member on Sep. 19, 2013 at 11:44 PM
Jealous, that's all she is. Take you down so when she's aroind she feels better about herself.
lovin_being_mom
by Member on Sep. 19, 2013 at 11:49 PM
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She's jealous cuz you look fantastic!
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