I have lost a total of about 45 lbs since my heaviest weight - I can fit into a size 6 or 8 (depending on the brand). But, I still have what I consider "trouble areas" - primarily my upper and lower abs - that's what I get for having 2 kids. My mom keeps telling me I am beautiful and that I look great (that's a mom's job, right?), and that my self-doubt VS being happy with my accomplishments is unwarrented. But, how do you get past that?