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My oldest son's father has pushed me over the top! Moving...

Posted by on Aug. 22, 2010 at 3:29 AM
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So, I've been thinking about moving. My oldest son's father has pushed me over the edge and I feel like the only way I can away from him is to move. I've already been toying with the idea about moving to Daytona, FL. I was born in Orlando, FL. and hated having to move when I was 7. About 6 yrs. ago I wet on a small trip to Daytona with my dad and my bother. My dad and my mom lived there when they were first married. I loved the trip. The area, everything. I know I'm not in any position to move for at least a yr and a half.

If I do move, will it make it harder for my son's father to see him? Will visitation be set up in that county? At the moment, I'm trying to get visitation taken away. My son's father is nothing but, a sperm donar and there's proof that he's a sexual pervert. While it's been reported, at the moment there's not enough evidence that backs up the alligations. Other then that, there's domestic violence and he's not a good influence around my son.

Other then things concerning visitation, can anyone offer me any advice with moving to a new area and all. Like how to do things completely on my own. Good neighborhoods, apartments, schools, daycares, employment, colleges, places and things to watch out for, what I should do before I move, etc. At the time I move I wil have a 4 1/2 yr. old and a 3 yr. old.

Thanks.

by on Aug. 22, 2010 at 3:29 AM
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hopenalivia
by on Sep. 9, 2010 at 2:16 PM

First of all I dont understand why you just wont let him be a dad to Caleb like sooner or later you have to understand that he is there. I am tired of hearing moms talking about keeping the fathers out of there kids life unless you have dead honest proff that he is a danger to him GROW UP and deal with what ever the courts have laid out for you two because either way your gonna have to travel to tampa for court dates untill they decided what is BEST for my Newphew

antoinettegts
by New Member on Sep. 21, 2010 at 6:36 PM


Quoting hopenalivia:

First of all I dont understand why you just wont let him be a dad to Caleb like sooner or later you have to understand that he is there. I am tired of hearing moms talking about keeping the fathers out of there kids life unless you have dead honest proff that he is a danger to him GROW UP and deal with what ever the courts have laid out for you two because either way your gonna have to travel to tampa for court dates untill they decided what is BEST for my Newphew


You're the one who was telling Tiffany and I about the porn. You were there when the fights broke out between him and me. The situations he put Caleb in. It's pathetic how you can do nothing but mess with people's minds, lie to them, and then when they do what they feel is right, you act like they're wrong.

You are in no position to determine what's in the BEST interest of my son. You don't even have care of your daughter. It doesn't matter what the situation is, you're the one who's screwed up your life to where you can't take care of your daughter. I honestly don't know how you can go out and party and stuff when your daughter isn't with you. I would be out doing everything in my power to get my child back. Not go out and party.

I messed up last yr. when I get help with my depression. When things got to the point that I almost had the boys taken away, it was a wake up call. I got my shit together. While I'm still working to put things together, I have been able to keep my children in my care. I'm almost done with my case plan and won't be under the court's nose. Though, with the way you are, you'll keep making report after report. Well, the last one you made proved to be false. Keep it up and I will file a complaint against you.

Unlike you, I am a good mother. My children are my LIFE. I gre up when I became a mother and I'm 2 yrs. younger then you.

hopenalivia
by on Sep. 29, 2010 at 1:06 PM
U can't file a complaint against me dumb ass . My daughter lives wit her father because it's what's best for her sorry my baby daddy takes care of his daughter Alivia comin back next month to stay so get your facts straight and you don't know what I do so before you judge someone look at yourself
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