We use to do some light bondage many years ago when sex was something we did on a regular basis..
If you dont mind me asking..what fizzled out? Do you know the cause? Cause the flame can always br brought back to life and sex can become hot and sizzling again.
i like watching bondage porn , but i dont wanna be tied up..... dont know why just a fear of it.... maybe i might try lite bondage...lol
i live the dom/sub lifestyle 24/7 with me BF. we love it. its not jsut about sex though we live it outside the bedroom as well.
i'm domme when the situation is right; and i do light bd and spankings. not into the heavy stuff at all.
What does your lifestyle entail if you don't mind me asking? We used to spend our weekends with me being very submissive but not since I got preggo. Sometimes I miss it. I just don't know how it'd work with a LO!!
Quoting proudmommy0417:i live the dom/sub lifestyle 24/7 with me BF. we love it. its not jsut about sex though we live it outside the bedroom as well.
My husband and I like the light stuff , light choking, restraints , spanking .. I love him being dominate but he does not know much about the dom/sub stuff. I think it is something I would really like to get into more and maybe even the heavy'er stuff.. FOR : proudmommy0417, how did you get into that kinda thing ? Did your BF know about it before you got together ? I would like some info on how to introduce my hubby to it more and maybe some instruction on being a sub for me . Sorry if that's to much. Would just like some advice . Thanks
For a few years we have been into spankings because I enjoy it but nothing more. I have been interested but afraid to tell him everything then he read Fifty Shades of Grey and asked me to read it so I did and I wanted more than ever. So about 3 weeks ago my life has changed for the better. We are so close now and have enjoyed our sex life so much more. We went to once a month if that lately to once or twice a day and even once 3 times. We now use leather cuffs for ankles and wrists, ball gag, riding crop, pin wheel, fogger and many more. We take turns who is in charge that night. I like in the bedroom him being in charge but he also enjoys me being in charge so we take turns. It works for us but it stays just in the bedroom for the most part. Except I asked if we could have a list of things I need to get done while he is at work and if I don't I will be punished. But mine is not where he spanks me then because that is purely for enjoyment. So mine is weird like if I get nothing done I am allowed to take care of him but I can't have nothing for me that night. We have to parts one I picked punishments which included that so I would stay motivate and I have only had that happen once. Then the second part is if supper isn't done by 6 p.m. and lunch by 12:30 p.m. weekend he chooses his own punishment and it can be different each time and I have on big house chroe that needs to be done and if not he chooses that pushment. For instance yesterday didn't get that done and he had a rough day and I didn't get anything and because other stuff didn't get done I slept on my side of the bed. Which I usually sleep right next to him with my arm around him because I sleep better that way.
I'm a collared Switch. Been in the culture for over 10 years. Been training for just as long and constantly learning/evolving. I'm also a trained rigger (for bondage)
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