Can someone tell me there thoughts on anal sex?
I love it at certain times. Like if I'm extremely horny and wet with pleasure...I love it when my hubby gets me past my limit of being teased with him eating my pussy...But at times he will use a dildo while eating me out then after a while will use a 2nd one for anal...And I have a min to adjust but if he does it right I have awesome Orgasms from it. But having him vaginally and a toy anally I cant get off as good. I've road him anally and it was good because my clit rubbed against him just right. But other than that...We don't do anal as much as some. Maybe like less than 25 times a yr by his dick, and less than 30x a yr with a toy...
My husband is pretty conservative so it is not even an issue. It seems to be popular though. It wasn't like that when were first married. I feel what you do in your bedroom is your business so what ever you prefer. As long as both of you agree.
I am scared to do it. My husband asks for it, but can't bring myself to go through with it. He's tried sticking his finger up there before and did not feel good. I would try it for him if it felt more comfortable. I don't think anything is wrong with it if you can put up with it.
it hurts even if done slowly!!!
I enjoy it when I'm really aroused. Usually, I'd rather wear a butt plug because I prefer that sensation of fullness more than the in-and-out thrusting, but everyone is different. If you're new to anal, remember to go slow and use plenty of lube. For more basic info, including safety tips, etc: Anal Talk
Quoting Teresa2266:it hurts even if done slowly!!!
It shouldn't hurt. You maybe need to use more lube or go even slower. The tricky thing with anal penetration is getting past both sphincter muscles, and to do that you must consciously relax back there. In order for me to be able to do that I have to be really turned on. Anal sex isn't something you do during quickies--for me it takes a LONG time.
askamber,wordpress.com I have a blog there on anal sex, pretty much everything from a to z, Read it and see if it helps :)
At first , I was really scared,but my lover was so very gentle and patient, over time its become a very exciting exprience.Its more than the act itself,its a bond that connects us on a higher level.
I like it sometimes! I recommend silicon lube and anal ease. And maybe a few drinks lol ;)
WHEN ME AND MY FIANCE DID IT, IT HURT, MOST PPL SAY THAT IT DOSENT HURT AND THAT IT FEELS GOOD. BUT WHEN WE DID IT I DIDNT LIKE IT, IT FELT LIKE I WAS PARALIZED OR SOMETHING
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