See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Ok I read a post on here asking how to make anal sex not hurt and I kind of have the same question but with more to it...
Me and SO have been trying for months to have anal sex. Anything to do with my ass is his absolute favorite thing in the world. And I just can't bring myself to even so much as act like I like it. When I was younger I had a "situation" that I know that has to play a big part of why I can't relax and enjoy it. But I have tried everything we could think of to help it not hurt as much for me and nothing seems to work. I know I will probably never enjoy doing it but if I could just make it stop hurting, or at least make the pain bearable I would be happy. I just want to do this so bad for him but (sometimes) even him fingering me there hurts too bad and I know it shouldn't. He takes it very slow so it's not him.
If anyone has any advice at all on how I could possibly make this work please let me know.