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Pay attention to the good things!!

Posted by on May. 1, 2012 at 10:59 AM
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Why do people only concentrate on the one minuscule bad thing you do every blue moon instead of all the good things you do for them daily....It sux!!

by on May. 1, 2012 at 10:59 AM
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IhaveHisjoy
by on May. 1, 2012 at 11:04 AM
It does suck! Sorry.
SassyWildflower
by on May. 1, 2012 at 11:11 AM

I'm sorry somone is doing this to you.  Just ignore them/it & move on. Dwelling on it never helps. ((hugs))

sleepy_in_va
by Samantha on May. 1, 2012 at 11:11 AM
Been there done that. It sucks a lot. Sorry momma
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psych_mom
by on May. 1, 2012 at 11:14 AM
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Just ignore that person. That just means that they issues with themself and want to focus on the bad in you so they feel better about themself.

laniramommy
by on May. 1, 2012 at 11:21 AM
People like that arent worth your time!

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rocamom
by Platinum Member on May. 1, 2012 at 12:08 PM

Because people are idiots and don't know how to be nice..  Keep your head up.. I bet you if you started saying NO to them they would realize how much you did do..  :)

HisSweetheart07
by Platinum Member on May. 1, 2012 at 12:17 PM

 this... I completely agree.

Quoting rocamom:

Because people are idiots and don't know how to be nice..  Keep your head up.. I bet you if you started saying NO to them they would realize how much you did do..  :)

 

VisionSeeker
by on May. 1, 2012 at 12:53 PM
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 I watched a show not to long ago that had a "life coach" on it.  This person made the most profound statement and I hope this will give you some peace.

This person said, that "when you focus on the bad things in others, it's really a reflection of what you don't like about yourself". 

Maybe they really don't have a problem with you...it's a problem they have with themselves:)

Kaci
by Kaci on May. 1, 2012 at 7:43 PM
Very good advice!

Quoting psych_mom:

Just ignore that person. That just means that they issues with themself and want to focus on the bad in you so they feel better about themself.

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friend8622
by on May. 1, 2012 at 7:43 PM

Sorry!  That isn't very nice!

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