I'm talking about my husband.. I'm a SAHM and when it comes to the weekends I don't think he gets that sometimes I just want a LITTLE break.. By break what I mean is for him to get up and feed the kids breakfast.. I do it 5 days a week and would like 1 break on the weekends not even both days.. Why do I have to bitch about it to him EVERY weekend in order for it to happen UGH!!! I just don't get it and he doesn't either.. Last night I slept like crap and my ear is bothering me like it's infected and he knew this but yet it's 8:30 and he's still F-ing in bed.. Or he is upstairs on the computer.. Either way I'm a little annoyed because it would be nice to have his help and company.. I made the kids breakfast and now they are running around like crazies but whatever.. I guess I'll have my break later..
It's just annoying that I feel like EVERY weekend we have the SAME conversation......
Ok I feel better now that it's been vented about.. :) :)
UPDATE:::: So, last night hubby and I finally talked about things.. Apparently he feels as if his job means nothing and that when he gets home sometimes I expect him to do to much.. (his jobs at home include mowing the grass, taking out the trash when full and on Wednesdays, bringing the laundry into the basement when asked and ocasionally emptying the dishwasher)... I told him that I don't want be his mom and ONCE in a while it would be nice if he could help without me asking and I'm NOT saying it has to be during the week.. I also told him that I feel like he NEVER does anything for ME as far as flowers (not expensive ones and not all the time), or even ice cream without asking, or calling to say DON'T COOK I'll bring something home.. It's the LITTLE THINGS!!!!
I think we both heard each other and hopefully things will be better!!!! I also told him that I really just want his company in the morning for a little bit at least!!!