So about a month ago my SIL e-mailed me and said that she had discussed the holidays with the other family.. So aparently we are just told what we are doing and it's not a question for us UGH!! Ok oh well moving on.. Then she said you are hosting the Saturday before Christmas.. UUMM NO I'm not.. My family MIGHT be in town so that won't work if they are.. I will find out my families plans and I will let you know as soon as I know but my mom has to request time at work so it's not just making plans, it will take some time to get an answer..
well after 2 weeks she brougt up the holidays AGAIN.. UUMM can i just get through Halloween please.. UGH!! i have talked to my family and they are working on getting answers.. She waited 2 more weeks and just asked me again.. So I told her that if she wanted to host and make plans then go for it but we still can't make plans or confirm that we would attend so we are still in a holding pattern.. She then tells me how busy they are well that's not my problem that's hers..
Thanksgiving has for the last 12 years been with my husbands family.. You tell me who's house and we'll bring a pie..
Christmas has ALWAYS been my families holiday and we try to plan a Roca Christmas when we can but it's ALWAYS chaning. My SIL wants to ALWAYS keep it the same and do it on Christmas Eve but every other Christmas we aren't in town so that doesn't always work. UGH..
Why is it always so stressful.. So my mom doesn't konw if she can get some time off at work and my Brother hasnt told me what his wife wants to do..
it's my husbands brothers wife that is annoying (he has 2 brothers but it's just one that's being annoying)..
I just wanted to VENT about it since my hubby doesn't have much to say LOL!! MEN hehehe.