See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Ok so next weekend my Husband and I have a wedding to attend out of state. So, my parents are coming to stay the weekend and take care of them. I am SUPER greatful and I know they will be in GREAT hands.
Well my mom casually mentions something to me about my brother and his family coming too. UUMM REALLY because NO ONE asked me.. Do I care that they want to come well they don't come when I am here so yes it hurts a little..
Anyway, do you think my brother should at least CALL and tell me he plans on staying at my house? I would totally say YES or well I won't be there so check with mom.. I mean I am obviously going to find out from my kids if they came or not. I just feel it's more respectful if they at least mention it. My mom wasn't 100% sure of their plan.
Just curious what you all think.. I'm just annoyed at my brother not really caring about my feelings. The only time we visit with them is when we go to their house.. It's VERY sad. Oh and my nieces birthday is coming up and NO ONE has mentioned the plans to me. I have having to ASK what the plans are and if I don't say anything I usually find out about 3 days before and then my mom gives me the guilt trip as to why we didn't go to her Birthday party :(.. UGH I can NEVER win..
WOW I feel MUCH better now that I vented.. LOL!!