My dads side of the family hasn't been a big part in my life since he passed away 20 years ago. It's a whole bunch of he said she said stuff that went on between my dads side and my mom. But it's been 20 years. It seems we have all put our past behind us and now we are starting to form a relationship with that side. I don't remember much of anything that went on as I was only 4 years old when my father passed. I have a very child like view of what went on and still to this day don't care and just want to move on and learn more about my family.