My fil came over and lit up a cigarette without even blinking, much less asking whether it was okay with us. My dh and I neither one smoke and anyone else who does and visits has always asked first.
I asked him to take it outside and he frowned and said that was stupid and went back to watching TV. Then, to make matters worse, he reached over and grabbed a crystal dish my grandmother gave me and used it as an ashtray and ignored me. I was livid!
When my dh got home from work, he took one look at his dad sitting there dunking ashes in my grandmother's antique dish and my apoplectic face and sent his dad packing.
Do you let anyone smoke in your home? If they did what fil did, what would you do?
Some beach, somewhere
There's a big umbrella casting shade over an empty chair...