Not letting him step over me no more. Nipping this attitude towards me and his little bro is got to stop
So this morning my Haiden(5.5) had his mind set that he was not going to eat breakfast with us this morning after i spent my time making our normal sunday breakfast. This included pancakes and sausage and peaches(it varies somtimes eggs and toast). We all were at the table and eating and he just stared at the wall. I asked why he was not eating his food and he didnt say anything. I then told him fine if u dont want to eat with us, go to your room and you wont get nothing til snack. He refused to do both, so i removed his plate and i took his hand and led him to his room and told him no toys until he is ready to eat. He was pissed with me but i walked out and my 3year old asked for more breakfast. So i said ok and gave him my 5.5 year olds food as he was not going to eat it and i was not going to waste food. After i cleaned up everything and started my laundry i heard his robots in his room so i went up and put them high out of his reach and said no toys until u eat.
He finay did eat. But i was not going to let him get away with wasting food and digging in the pantry for cookies or anything else that was junk food.
But i really think i need to more firm with him and when attitude strikes to remove him before he gets in screaming rage or tests me further. Also someone in my post replied about the door(he slams them when mad) i want to try. This will be the first slam he does i am going to make him open and close the door the right way for 10mins. When stomping up to his room i will make him walk up and down the stair nicely for 5mins.