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ugggg the dreaded time of year

Posted by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 4:36 PM
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It's that time again.... I attempt to send 2 updates yearly to dd Bio dad. Though he never responds I do it so he can never say I hold her away from him. I also do it so that when he sends her clothes for Christmas he at least buys the right size. I wish he would just sign his rights over so dh could adopt her. Every time I ask he gets all upset and blames me for him not having a relationship with her. I guess this is more of a vent than anything.
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s.t.e.p.h
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 5:00 PM

((hugs))

Flaca43
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 5:18 PM
Hugs
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Number1Chef
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 6:30 PM
Hugs!!!!
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itsallabtthem84
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 6:33 PM

Does he pay child support? If not then maybe you can get him on abandonment charges.

Barronbaby
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 6:45 PM
Yea he pay's child support! He has never met her once! It's sad they have that stupid child support equals contact rule

Quoting itsallabtthem84:

Does he pay child support? If not then maybe you can get him on abandonment charges.

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PEEK05
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 7:56 PM


Quoting s.t.e.p.h:

((hugs))



Charizma77
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 9:50 PM

I can't imagine how frustrating this must be for you. Hugs!

Charli627
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 9:56 PM
Hugs
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shell81
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 10:20 PM

 When was the last time he called / asked about her?

He has never seen her.... I thought he had? NOT saying your a liar just asking hun.

Barronbaby
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 10:25 PM
Nope he has never seen her except in photos. His mom has seen her once back when she was a baby.

It's been 3 years since I've heard from him directly. His mom or sister usually sends a quick thank-you for the updates. I know I'm a fool for doing the updates but I want to make sure I dot my I's and cross my T's. He tends to spin things to make me look like the bad guy at least I have the updates that say I try. If that makes sense.

Dd knows about him but has never met him. That's why she calls dh daddy.


Quoting shell81:

 When was the last time he called / asked about her?


He has never seen her.... I thought he had? NOT saying your a liar just asking hun.

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