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My Kid's Lunch Is None of the Government's Business

Posted by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 2:28 PM
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I saw this in The Stir - Quite honestly, I see nothing wrong with the lunch the child brought from home, do you?

My Kid's Lunch Is None of the Government's Business

Posted by Jenny Erikson on February 14, 2012 

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A four-year-old preschooler at West Hoke Elementary School in North Carolina opted to eat just three chicken nuggets from the school cafeteria after her own lunch was deemed ‘unhealthy’ by a state inspector.

The girl’s mother had packed her a sack lunch containing a turkey and cheese sandwich, a banana, potato chips, and apple juice. I’m impressed. My preschooler’s lunch usually consists of a tube of yogurt, a string cheese, Pirate’s Booty, and some sort of juice box. Kids are picky, and when she’s at school, my main concern is that she gets some sustenance. We fill in with grains, fruit, and veggies at home, because we’re her parents, and we have authority over our daughter and her diet.

That’s not the case at West Hoke, apparently. Somehow, the lunch failed to meet the U.S. Department of Agriculture guidelines that state that healthy meals must include one serving of meat, one serving of milk, one serving of grain, and two servings of fruit or vegetables. The Division of Child Development and Early Education at the Department of Health and Human Services requires all lunches served in pre-kindergarten programs to satisfy those requirements.

The lunch inspector decided that the girl’s lunch was unsatisfactory, and set a tray from the cafeteria in front of her. The girl chose to eat three chicken nuggets and throw the rest away. Her mother was then charged $1.25 for the hot meal.

Lunch inspector? Why is there an agent inspecting lunches? Let’s have a little common sense. Of course there should be lunch supervisors, and if they see a kid without anything to eat, they should help said kid get something to eat. They should let the child’s teacher know, and the teacher should work with the parents to find out if the lunch was forgotten, lost, traded for Pokémon cards, or nonexistent due to lack of grocery money.

There are programs available to help kids from low-income families eat, at the parents’ behest. It is not up to some random government official to judge my parenting and how I choose to feed my own child, and decide that my mothering isn’t good enough. It is none of their business what my kid eats, even if it’s Twinkies and Coca-Cola. They are mine until they’re 18, not Uncle Sam’s.

Once upon a time, there was another government that claimed, “Nutrition is not a private matter.” It was the Nazi’s. Just saying.

Posted by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 2:28 PM
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Derari
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 2:31 PM

What if the kid was a vegan?? How would she be forced to eat the chicken nuggets?? Was her lunch all that bad?? I dont think so at all. Strange.

CoeyG
by Colleen on Feb. 15, 2012 at 4:36 PM

What the hell is a "lunch inspector"?  They never had them when Shannon was in school and never had them when I was in school.  The only time Shannon got a healthy meal was when I packed it for her.  The school certainly didn't offer them.  Let's not forget the Government has deemed ketchup as a vegetable.  

snuggiewoogie
by Jackie on Feb. 15, 2012 at 4:52 PM

 Oh my god..... What's wrong with a turkey sandwich?? Awful!! I would have gone balistic on the lunch inspector.....

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TheJerseyGirl
by Michele on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:00 PM

 Thats so wrong! The government is taking us over in every aspect and its getting ridiculous!

when they offer my child a free lunch that they will actuall eat, THEN we'll talk!

Charli627
by Charli on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:53 PM
Im a pre kindergarten teacher we dont have a lunch inspector lol. But in order to serve things that arent on the menu to a child with allergies or diet restriction we have to have a notice from the parent on file. and that's that. They dont have to eat what we serve them but in order to get the money for the food program we have document that every child that was present that day was served the lunch
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LucyHarper
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 10:04 PM

"it is none of their business what my kid eats, even if its twinkies and coca-cola. They are mine until they are 18", a hundred years ago people said the same exact thing when beating your child with a belt came under fire. They said its their kid, they can discipline them any way they want. Of course they were wrong, when the parent is putting their child in danger, others are allowed, and should be allowed, to step in. Im not saying a bad diet is the same as child abuse, but it is still a major issue and problem and causes a lot of health issues. If a parent is sending their kids in with crap food everyday and putting their childs health in jeopardy, then I completely support the school in doing something about it. As for this story, I do think that in cases like this, the school overstepped and shouldnt have done that, the childs lunch was fine. But if a child is sent to school with cookies, cheetos, and coca-cola everyday, which I have seen, then the school should be allowed to say something and do something. Replacing the childs lunch with a school meal and making the parents pay for it will push the parents to start sending healthy foods to get away from the bill. As for lack of money, I know plenty of healthy meals you can make for the price of twinkies and coke. If someone is mistreating their child, and that includes giving them a crap diet, then someone should say something for the childs sake.

mommykate4
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 10:11 PM

i agree...i read about this school last year(see link) and i was like seriously wtf i would be mad as hell if the school was forcing my kid to eat the hot lunch..my kid...i pack there lunch...heres the link to what im talking about

http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/education/ct-met-school-lunch-restrictions-041120110410,0,4567867.story

 

nicolekcoy
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 10:15 PM
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There was nothing wrong with that lunch, and id like to know how they can call processed school food healthier than a turkey sandwhich. And if they think that food is so unhealthy then why does the government allow it to be sold in store? I'm not saying feed ur kid a bunch of junk but a small bag of chips isn't going to hurt them. In my opinion they can have an opinion when they buy her grocerys and comes over every morning to make her childs lunch.
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3totsinabox
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 10:19 PM
That is wrong. What if she had intolerance to chicken nuggets? I would be pitching a fit so fast, if that were my kid.
SherylDe
by New Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 11:54 AM

 That lunch inspector needs to be slapped in the face with that turkey sandwich!

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