I think she should have evaulated her finances BEFORE she choose to have a gazillion children on her own. I feel bad for her kids, but not her.
Quoting mik1of3:So is the majority of the country, bitch. Get over yourself and do what you have to do for your family like the rest of us do..you made your bed, don't cry because you are being forced to lie in it.
So is the majority of the country, bitch. Get over yourself and do what you have to do for your family like the rest of us do..you made your bed, don't cry because you are being forced to lie in it.
I am disabled, can't work am on oxygen 24/7 I have Pulmonary SArcaoidosis, COPD, Congestive Heart Failure, Hypothyroid, Acute Renal Failure as well as an Illingual Hernia on my intestines. I am on SSD and will be for the rest of my life...thanks for getting angry about it.
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Well, I don't want to judge her, nor point the finger. I do think it was irresponsible to purposley get implanted to have numerous babies at once. But that's not just her 'fault', that is also the fault of the Doctor that agreed to do that for her. ( he should be financial responsible as well).
I do believe that she truly loves those kids. And I think that she is trying to do best by them. I can see how it would be a struggle, and I wish nothing but the best for her. If she needs financial help or support in any form, I feel that she should get it, not because she planned on this many kids, but because with out the help the kids are the one who are hurting. They didn't ask for any of this, they are innocent. So to deny their mother any help would be only denying them of the care of things they truly need.
I think we should all just leave her alone when it comes to negativity. I think she made a choice without clearly thinking it through, and now she has realized the error of her ways, but there are still kids involved so we need to just back off and let her be. I think it's great that she is trying so hard to provide for them, and I respect her for that.
So. She did this to herself..... (or rather the dr. did it to her). But either way... she was a willing participant, and she knew what she was getting into....Even before she had the 8 new ones......
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