My bf said I don't love him and never have...UPDATE he got a job....
Question: Am I wrong for being mad???
Total Votes: 15
My bf told me I don't love him and never have all because I am pissed at him. He is in school half way across the country and has only been around our daughter for a week at Christmas. I wasn't pissed he went back to school he deserved the chance to finish just like I do. Mind you he almost got kicked out and is barely passing, with no responsibilities other than school. I am making A B honor roll and hardly ever miss class and I have to take care of OUR daughter. All he keeps talking about is that he wants me and dd at his graduation in June and how much he misses us. I don't want to go because it is a 25 hour car ride, but because I love him and he wants our dd to be there I am going. Tonight I found out that after he graduates he is going home with a buddy for 2 weeks then coming home. But he also said if he finds a job out there he is staying. He wonders why I am pissed off and says I have never really loved him. I have every right to be PISSED.....He is delaying coming home to be with his daughter 2 more weeks so that he can go hang out with his buddy in his(the buddies) hometown. And if he finds work he won't be coming home at all... I knew I would be doing all this until June by myself but he needs to come home after he graduates. He needs to decide right now he can either be there for his daughter or I can raise her alone. The choice is his I just hope he things really hard about the decision he wants to make. Because I refuse to let him walk in and out of her life and hurt her.
I CAN AND WILL RAISE THIS BABY BY MYSELF I DON'T NEED A MAN WHO DOESN'T WANT TO BE THERE TO HELP ME TAKE CARE OF MY DAUGHTER....
My bf text me earlier and told me he got a job 30 minutes away from where we live and he can start as soon as he graduates in June. Now while this sounds great I am still extremely skeptical about the whole thing. Yes he will be able to be here for our daughter and commute to work but I'm still not entirely sure he wants to be here for her. All and all I am still expecting the worse and I'm prepared for that. I am going to hope for the best and just see where the future takes us. All I know is that I was 100% serious when I said I can and will raise dd by myself if I have to. O and I had mentioned my grades, the finals have come in I made 3 A's and 2 B's. I know that really has nothing to do with this post I am just really excited I did so well.